I found out i can't sponsor mike here because i can't support him. how dumb :-(
so it looks like I am going to move to detriot to be as close as i can be to him without us being in the same country, then i have to like work and stuff so i can prove i can support him, then move back to east coast civilization..
how dumb is that? that puts 2 years on it (when we can see eachother everyday plus more before we can even move in or get married) when we are ready to move together now..